20 First Date Questions Guaranteed to Enchant
Keep the conversation flowing on your first date with these 20 questions guaranteed to have your potential bae talking and anxious for more of your time.
- ♡ June 13, 2020
- 5:16 pm
- ♡ Dating, Lifestyle
Read Time: 5 Minutes
Being a great conversationalist is less about speaking and more about listening. It is the difference between an ordinary conversation and an enchanting (and effective) one. These 20 first date questions are ideal when it comes time to vet your suitor, build rapport, gently direct the discussion, and leave him begging for more of your time even though he did most of the talking.
Restaurant & Menu Item Questions
These questions give him a chance to flex his knowledge, and you’ll have the opportunity to pay attention to what he is aware of, knowledgeable about, and used to.
- Which red wine is your favorite?
- Why did you choose this gorgeous restaurant?
- Have you eaten here before?
- What is (insert obscure dish here)? Have you tried it?
Family Life & Childhood Questions
Asking these lighthearted questions will provide you with insight into your POT’s childhood without being intrusive. These questions will also bring up whatever emotions he may have the way he grew up. Pay attention to his face, tone of voice, and body language. For example: if he smiles in loving memory of his mom or slightly grimaces when he talks about his dad.
- Did you travel a lot growing up?
- Do you have any brothers and sisters? Alternatively, did you enjoy being an only child? Why, why not?
- Who do you think you're more similar to your mother or father?
- Do you have any childhood memories that stuck with you?
Travel Based Questions
Like the questions about the restaurant and menu items, asking about travel will give him a chance to show you his tastes and habits. Maybe you can even slip in that you haven’t been Monaco but, you would LOVE to go. You never know babe; the date may end in him booking your ticket. 😉
- What's your favorite city?
- Do you speak any other languages?
- Pick one: Beach trip or Ski Trip?
Miscellaneous
- Do you have any favorite books?
- What kind of music do you listen to?
- What's the best gift you have ever given and received?
- What's your least favorite word?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
- What are some things you prefer to be in control of?
- What do you enjoy doing to stay active?
- What is your favorite feature on a woman?
- I love your cologne. What are you wearing?
Remember, ladies, curiosity is youthful, therefore attractive, while attention is addictive. The combination of both is a powerful and seductive tool. Keep these questions in your feminine arsenal and wield them with genuine interest and intrigue. You’ll be unforgettable.
